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There’s something incredibly satisfying about making your own hair care products- specially when you know exactly what’s going on your scalp and strands. That’s why I started crafting my own blonde hair friendly soap at home (with a little bit of trial and error). Not only is it easy, fun, and budget-friendly, but it also lets me take control over what touches my hair.
As a blonde (thanks to both genetics and my hair girl), I was always on the hunt for hair products that are gentle, nourishing, and won’t cause brassy tones or buildup. Over time, I found that some store-bought shampoos were either too harsh or loaded with ingredients I couldn’t pronounce. I wanted something simple, clean, and effective. And so, my blonde-friendly DIY hair bar soap journey began.
Also, moms, listen up! After having kids, I definitely noticed changes in my hair. Postpartum hair loss hit me hard both times, and even after that initial shedding phase, I felt like my hair texture was different. It got frizzier, thinner in spots, had more of a dry scalp and I struggled with those classic flyaways (IYKYK). Ever since switching to this homemade soap, I’ve noticed a huge improvement in how manageable my hair feels. It’s shinier, softer, and those little baby hairs that once stuck out at every angle? They’re finally calming down. WIN!
Table of Contents
Why This Recipe Works
Let me walk you through the ingredients and why I specifically chose each one for this recipe.
1. Aloe Vera Melt & Pour Base
This forms the hydrating base of our bar. Aloe vera is known for its soothing, moisturizing properties, and it’s a dream for sensitive scalps. It’s light, non-greasy, and won’t weigh down fine blonde strands. The Skin Said Yes brand has been my go-to. It melts evenly and leaves hair feeling soft without a residue.
2. Goat Milk Melt & Pour Base
Goat milk adds a creamy, nourishing texture to the bar. It’s rich in vitamins like A and D, and helps support a healthy scalp. I find this blend of aloe and goat milk gives the bar a perfect balance between cleansing and conditioning.
3. Chamomile Tea
Chamomile isn’t just a calming bedtime tea- it’s actually a blonde hair bestie. It enhances golden tones naturally and soothes the scalp. I just use one tea bag (from a basic chamomile tea box) and steep it in a small amount of hot water, then stir in 4-5 tablespoons of the tea infusion into the melted soap.
4. Raw Honey
Honey is nature’s conditioner. It draws moisture into the hair and gives the bars a lovely slip. I also like how it gently cleanses without stripping oils.
5. Jojoba Oil
Jojoba oil closely resembles the natural sebum produced by the scalp. It moisturizes without making hair greasy. Plus, it helps with frizz and flyaways- two things I always fought with postpartum (and on humid days).
6. Rosemary Essential Oil
Rosemary oil is well-known for supporting scalp health and potentially promoting hair growth. It gives the bars a refreshing, herbal scent that smells clean and natural.
7. Lemon Essential Oil
Lemon oil helps clarify the scalp and brighten blonde tones (gently!). It balances out the richness of the other ingredients with a crisp, citrusy note.
Equipment You’ll Need
Before you start, make sure you have a few dedicated soap-making tools. I learned this the hard way after using my favorite cooking spatula and then not being able to get the scent of rosemary out of it for weeks.
- Double Boiler or microwave-safe bowl: If using the microwave, melt the soap base slowly in short bursts (30-60 seconds), stirring in between. Don’t overheat- it’ll get bubbly and lose some of its smooth texture, and can sometimes change the smell and clarity of the soap.
- Designated spoon or spatula: Again, don’t mix food and soap tools. I keep a small plastic bin just for soap-making.
- Silicone molds: Any mold will do, but I love using bar molds because they create uniform sizes. The 44oz recipe fills approximately 6-8 standard bars.
- Measuring cups/spoons: Accurate measuring is key for consistency.
- Spray bottle of rubbing alcohol: Optional, but a quick spritz on the soap surface helps eliminate bubbles.
Blonde Hair Friendly Melt & Pour Hair Bar Soap Recipe
For a 44 oz mold (yields approximately 6–8 bars):
- 26.5 oz Aloe Vera Melt & Pour Base (60%)
- 17.5 oz Goat Milk Melt & Pour Base (40%)
- 4–5 tablespoons Chamomile Tea (steeped from 1 bag in ¼ cup hot water)
- 1.5 tablespoons Raw Honey
- 2 tablespoons Organic Jojoba Oil
- 40 drops Organic Rosemary Essential Oil
- 15 drops Organic Lemon Essential Oil
Instructions
- Cut the soap base into small chunks and combine both aloe vera and goat milk M&P bases in your double boiler (or bowl).
- Melt slowly, stirring frequently. If using the microwave, heat in 15-30 second bursts.
- Steep one chamomile tea bag in 1/4 cup of hot water. Let it brew for 5-10 minutes. Electric kettle I use for my tea linked HERE!
- Once the soap is fully melted, add chamomile tea (4-5 tbsp), honey, and jojoba oil. Stir gently but thoroughly.
- Add your essential oils (rosemary and lemon). Stir again.
- Pour into mold and tap gently to release air bubbles. Spritz with rubbing alcohol if desired.
- Let them cool and harden for several hours (I let them sit overnight).
- Pop out of mold, and let them cure for 24-48 hours before cutting to size and use. I cut my soap with a soap cutter that comes with the silicon kit above. Store in a dry place (I keep mine in a shoe box) and they will keep for about a year- or longer!
Cost Breakdown (Approximate)
Here’s a breakdown based on the materials I used. All items are available amazon or at grocery or craft stores.
- Aloe Vera M&P (26.5 oz): $7.50
- Goat Milk M&P (17.5 oz): $5.00
- Chamomile Tea (1 bag out of box): ~$0.15
- Honey (1.5 tbsp): ~$0.50
- Jojoba Oil (2 tbsp): ~$1.50
- Rosemary Essential Oil (40 drops): ~$1.80
- Lemon Essential Oil (15 drops): ~$0.90
Total for ~6-8 bars: ~$17.35
That’s about $2.17 to $2.89 per bar, depending on how thick you pour them. Compare that to $10-$15 for a natural shampoo bar at the store!
Why I Love Making These at Home
There’s a real peace of mind that comes from knowing exactly what’s in my hair products. No sulfates, no weird preservatives, no mystery fragrances. Just clean, simple ingredients.
Plus, this has become a fun little self-care ritual. I make a batch every couple of months and even gift extras to friends and family. My sister loves the scent, and my mom asked me to make a batch just for her too!
When I use this bar, I feel good about what I’m putting on my scalp. It lathers just enough, rinses clean, and leaves my hair soft without that squeaky, stripped feeling. I follow up with a diluted ACV rinse or a light conditioner, and my hair has never looked shinier.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by ingredient labels or disappointed by natural hair bars that just didn’t deliver- try making your own. This blonde hair friendly melt & pour hair bar soap is where ease meets effectiveness. Whether you’re a blonde like me or just looking for a gentle, nourishing bar, you’ll love what this recipe does for your hair.
And the best part? You made it yourself. Pat yourself on the back!
Have you tried making your own shampoo bars yet? What oils or scents do you love? Let’s share some DIY beauty ideas!
Happy Washing!
With love,
Bri & Cat
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